Heyyy looks like natl pronoun day happened .. Im usually apprehensive of these holidays but seeing as they exist for powerful reasons and I’m on this honesty track I’d like to take this opportunity to let you know I prefer going by they. I’ll probably follow this up with something smarter later but rn I just want to ask you to do something I’ve felt but been afraid of for a few years. I volleyed my feelings about my pronouns to partners and best friends several years ago to be met with only scoffing and it hurt, and silenced me. All of whom I’ve had to excuse from my life. I have not considered my personal life to be a part of my public persona until COVID when I realized I don’t want to minimize what I’m going through If it can uplift whatever bullshit other queer poc people are going through. I abhor the taboo of bandwagons but I won’t let that outshine the rhetoric of power and self actualization, and I encourage y’all to do the same. Won’t be bummed if you mess up but sometimes it’s nice to make shit public…

Happy LGBTQIA+ history month 🍑🏵 define ‘gaysian’ @polartropica 🖤🐰 • Some impt gaysian history in my stories ^ 📸@dat.asset thanks to Peter Lai for the regalia 👘

🌈🐉👘 What a pleasure to visit legendary designer Peter Lai’s studio in DTLA - genuinely felt like the scene where all of China bows to Mulan - a magical haven full of asian textiles, relics & treasures collected over a lifetime of care/inherited from his family’s history in Chinese opera and entertainment. He is having a moving out sale! Contact him at: 🌸peterlai88@hotmail.com 🌸thank you @polartropica for bringing me to this lovely place & 📸🖤⛓👘🌈